Everyone who sticks around in the young adult book world has noticed this by now. Writers, readers, and bloggers everywhere have started questioning this practice, now dubbed a cliche. Yet nobody seems to know why it even happened, and few can come up with interesting and compelling ways to relieve this syndrome without damaging a good teen story. I speak of the Absent Parent(s) Syndrome -- and I think I've figured out why it's around.
First of all, look at what Absent Parent Syndrome is. The parents are dead, divorced, always working, in another state, etc. They overlook or misinterpret signs that anything is different in their teen's life. They play little to no part in the story. While the teens care deeply about their parents, as far as the book's concerned, parents are often the least important character.
Compare this to younger fiction. Kids' and middle grade books often place at least one parent in key roles. Even when the parent is only in one scene, something they say or do has great bearing on the rest of the story. They guide the characters, teach lessons, help mold the story. Cut parents from a young adult story, and you have an orphaned main character; cut the parents from a children's story, and you have a completely different (often weaker/hole-riddled) book.
Compare it to older fiction. Adults, while independent of their parents, are quite mindful of them. Perhaps they long to live up to their parents' reputation; perhaps they're fearful of letting parents down; perhaps they struggle to live their own lives while taking care of an ill parent. The parents may be present as a story character, or it could just be their memory -- whether as a great teacher and guide or as someone who left the character scarred -- but they always have a part, just as in children's books.
I think the reasoning behind this is in the real-life mindsets of children, teens, and adults. Children depend on their parents for everything, and see the world through the lenses their parents instill. They're blind to their parents' faults in many cases until later in life. The world revolves around the parents; they've not yet reached the age of thinking or providing for themselves. Adults are fully independent, usually with their own spouses and children eventually. They've balanced out after the hormones and insecurities of teenhood, and have found the right balance of freedom (thinking for themselves, being an individual) and family (considering others' opinions and preferences, making decisions for a group rather than just self).
Teens, on the other hand, stand on the ragged edges between the two. We must think for ourselves for the first time, and decide what beliefs from our childhood will continue with us in life. We must learn to provide for ourselves -- get a job, pay taxes, manage our money, make choices with the head rather than the hormones. All at the same time, we still live under the rules and decisions of our parents. In an attempt to learn to be the independent adults we know we must become to succeed in society, we tear away from our parents. Often this is where rebellion, anger, and misunderstandings stem from.
Many of us feel like the responsibilities of an adult are expected of us (getting a job and doing it well; paying for a car and its maintenance/gas), while the freedom of a child is all we receive in return (being told when to go to bed; having our eating habits monitored rather than letting us eat what we want, when we want). I realize that most parents almost always have the best intentions. While some of us try to keep in mind that living under someone else's roof and eating their food means following their rules, we often forget these things in our frustration. Not to mention hormones and the emotions they cause really are as confusing to us as they are to our parents. In the swirling mess that feels like our lives, we often tend to cut off others as much as possible to try and figure things out in our own topsy-turvy heads. No one feels this knife of separation as keenly as the parents who raised us.
Basically: Absent Parent Syndrome is cliche, yes. It's become a trite trope of YA fiction. But only when you dig to the heart of the matter can you as a writer find ways to begin fixing this problem.
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Tuesday, March 11, 2014
Saturday, January 11, 2014
Author Interview: Heather Manning
I am a young lady who loves to read -- and write. I have won multiple competitions for my writing with "Nextgen Writers" and placed first in some writing contests with the "Go Teen Writers" blog and am a proud member of ACFW. I live in Missouri where I attend high school, act in community theatre, eat donuts, and read every Inspirational Historical Romance I can get my hands on.
I am proud to say that my first novel was professionally published while I was only sixteen years old.
What do you do when you're not writing?
When I’m not writing, you can usually catch me reading, cross stitching, or working on memorizing the lines for the next play I’m in.
What is your writing process? Do you write regularly at certain times or just when inspiration hits?
I really, really try to write at regular times, like at least thirty minutes a day, but sometimes that doesn’t work and I go for a few days where I only write when the inspiration hits. I usually take part in an event that a writer’s group I’m a member of runs called “100 for 100” where the participants write one hundred words a day for one hundred days. It really helps me bump my word count up and keep an even speed.
What inspired your book? How did it all start?Well, I got an idea in the middle of eighth grade to write a story about three best friends, and to base a trilogy on them. I loved the setting of a pirate ship, and everything kind of fell into place around that idea.
What was your favorite book or author as a teen? What's your favorite now?
Since I am still a teen, I will just tell you some of my favorite authors. I absolutely love Mary Connealy, Deeanne Gist, and MayLu Tyndall. I could re-read their books over and over and over again.
If you could only share one piece of advice with aspiring authors, what would it be?
I would advise aspiring authors to read in their genre, write daily (even if it’s only a sentence), and attend writer’s conferences. The connections made and amount of information there are priceless.
Is there anything that you learned during the process of writing and publishing?
I learned that when I write I tend to add a large amount of needless words called “weasel words” like “that”. I have a whole list of these words, and getting rid of them tightens up writing.
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| Emmy Rossum as Eden in Swept to Sea |
Can you tell us about the publishing process? Was there anything in particular that surprised you or that was easier (or harder) than you expected?
I absolutely loved the publishing process, and I hope I get to go through it again soon. I was surprised by how painless the editing process was. I expected to receive thousands of edits that would take months to complete, but it was nothing like that. I enjoyed it.Are you planning any other books?
Why, yes, I am! First, I am hoping to complete the trilogy that started with Swept to Sea. Then, I plan to continue on with my writing career. I already have a lot of new book ideas up my sleeves.
What genres have you written?
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| Henry Cavill as Caspian |
What’s your outlook on fan fiction?
If it’s something a writer enjoys, then they should go ahead and do it. I personally don’t read it—it’s a waste of time for me personally, since I don’t think it helps further many writing careers. However, if that is what
someone enjoys doing as a hobby, I’m not going to stop them from writing it.
And finally, some extras: where can I find you online?
You can find me on my website: http://heathermauthor.blogspot.com/
My Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Heather-Manning-Author/140994172751360
Twitter: @HeatherM_Author
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/2807352.Heather_Manning
Thank you so much for being my guest today!
Friday, January 3, 2014
Author Interview: Kat Zhang
How long have you been writing?
I started fiddling around with writing poetry when I was really young, like seven or so. I'd gotten this book of children's poetry and got really enamored with it. I used to sit and read them aloud to myself constantly. I was about eleven when I started getting into writing stories, and twelve, I think, when I started my first novel ("started" being the imperative word--never finished it!).
I began What's Left of Me during my senior year of high school, and wrote the series all through college. So writing has always been a big part of growing up, for me.
What is your writing process? Do you write regularly at certain times or just when inspiration hits?
I like to write regularly and set a goal for myself every day of a certain number of chapters, or a certain number of words. Some days, I'll get really inspired, but other days it takes a while to get going. Inspiration is a slippery thing. I've learnt to not rely on it too much!
What keeps you motivated?
Sometimes, it's hard to tell, haha. Of course, once you have a contract and everything, and people counting on you to get something done, that's pretty motivating. But even outside of that, once I start a story, I just have this urge to finish it. If I don't finish it, it's going to just live inside my head forever, and while that's okay for smaller story ideas -- still unformed and baking -- when they get to be a certain "size," so to say, they have to get out onto the page.
What inspired your book? How did it all start?
Don't really have a super cool story for how I first got inspired to write The Hybrid Chronicles, sadly! Just started wondering -- what would it be like if someone else shared your body? Or if you were trapped in someone else's body, unable to speak or move? It seemed at once terrifying and awfully interesting.
Which are you - panster or plotter?
I used to be a complete panster, but the past couple years has turned me into more and more of a plotter. I'm still definitely nowhere near the outlining that my truly plotter friends do, but I like to have things figured out now to a degree that I didn't before.
Are you planning any other books?I've actually already finished Echoes of Us, so for the past few months, I've been working on a YA fantasy I'm really excited about. I can't say too much about it now, but hopefully sometime soon, I'll have news :)
What's the weirdest thing you've Googled?
Hahaha, I don't even know. I've googled everything from "What happens to fish during extreme flooding" to "how to start an electrical fire" to "Forging birth certificates" and "how to hand-make a gun and bullets." My search history is probably pretty scary.
Thanks for having me, Emily! You can find me at katzhangwriter.com, @KatZhang, and https://www.facebook.com/katzhangwriter.
Thursday, January 2, 2014
Special Interview: Hannah Miller, Future Olympist
Once upon a time, preteen Emily found out her good friend from her homeschool group had discovered a cool winter sport. Despite her friend's disbelief, Emily was firmly convinced the girl would be in the Olympics one day. Fast-forward several years, and Hannah Miller, slider extraordinaire, is raising money to train internationally - and, yes, be in future winter Olympics! Commence the insane squealing! I totally called this.
Anyway, to help Hannah get the word out about her unique sport and her fundraising needs, I invited her to hang out with us today. I just know you're going to love her, my lovely readers.
For starters, tell us a little about yourself.
Well, I suppose I'll start out with saying that my name is Hannah Miller. I'm sixteen years old and have been homeschooled since first grade. Besides luge, I like to spend my time reading and staying fit while spending time with my family.
As you'll read on through this, you'll learn that I've dedicated the last five years of my life to something that I love and the only way I've been able to do so is through the love and support of my family and friends.
What is luge, exactly?
Luge is an odd yet unique sport. Technically, the noun form is "sliding." We slide down an iced-over track on a small sled that's fitted to our bodies at vast speeds of 65-80 mph, racing to the thousandth of a second. Luge is actually known as the fastest sport on ice.
Because we race to the thousandth of a second, all of our equipment is based off of aerodynamics. We wear skin-tight spandex suits and special shoes made to point our feet. The edges of our sleds are smooth and rounded. The whole point is to go as fast as possible.
Have you always been interested in luge?
Actually, before I tried out, I had no clue as to what luge was. My parents saw the luge recruitment program in the local newspaper and thought it'd be a fun thing for me to try out. Little did they know that four years later, I'd end up competing around the world!
How'd you get started in luge - and how old were you?
I was only twelve years old when I got started. The USLA (United States Luge Association) has a recruitment program called a "slider search" where they travel all over the country looking for raw talent. In August of 2009, they held one of these two-three hour sessions in the next town over. Seeing it in the paper,
I assumed that the program was to familiarize you with the sport, not a program that was looking for their next team athletes. Needless to say, as soon as I gave it a try, I fell in love with it.
What is your favorite part of sliding?
My favorite part is definitely the adrenaline rush and the sense of accomplishment after you've had a great run. Especially after having problems in a certain area, once you finally nail it and fully understand what to do, it's just such a great feeling.
Describe a typical day in the life of a slider.
A typical day in the life of a slider can be rather hectic. On a daily basis, we take runs on the luge track, which is the most important part of our training. We do some sort of physical training, whether it be weight lifting, cardio/agility, or core movements. Also, we have an indoor start facility. The most crucial part of luge is having a fast start time; because of this, the indoor start facility enables us to focus solely on improving our start times. All of this takes about six hours of the day. The rest of our time is spent on sled maintenance, meals in between activities, catching up on schoolwork, and recuperating from the day.
What places have you traveled to for training/competition?
I've traveled to various places in Germany, Austria, Latvia and Canada; not including the US.
Where was your favorite?
My favorite location would be in Igls, Austria. The scenery is utterly breathtaking. Though, my favorite track would be in Konigssee, Germany. It's one of the only tracks in the world that was built for luge. So, because of that, the curves and pressures have a very unique feeling that's unlike any other track.
Have you won any awards? Tell us about them!
I have! I've won a number of medals through small competitions, but a few of them have been from the National Championships held in Lake Placid, New York throughout the years.
I know you're homeschooled - always have been, correct? With all the traveling involved, I was wondering - are all the sliders you know homeschooled?
Yes, I've always been homeschooled, which has come to a great advantage. Most athletes either attend online schooling, are homeschooled, or continue working through their school districts. Some schools are very good about keeping in contact with students, while some schools aren't so diligent.
How has sliding changed your life?
Luge has drastically changed my life for the better. There are only two luge/bobsled/skeleton tracks in the United States, and because of that, we have to start living away from home at the Olympic Training Center at very young ages in order to train. Like I mentioned earlier, I was twelve when I got into luge. I started living away from home at such a young age that I had no choice but to gain independence and mature. I think that this situation really has come to a great advantage in every aspect of my life. Also, traveling to all of these places and experiencing the different cultures and atmospheres of different countries is far more effective than reading and learning about it through a text book.
There are, for example, baseball teams for fun, baseball teams at school or clubs, and then there's professional on-television baseball. Are there different levels like that for luge?
There are actually four teams in the system. The first team is what we call the Development Team. This is where every athlete starts. The sole purpose for this team is to help define and develop the raw talent that the young athletes have. Second, we have the Candidate Team. This group of athletes are those who have advanced themselves and who have worked hard at bettering their skills through the Development Team. Third, we have the Junior National Team. This is the team that travels all over the world competing in our Youth/Junior World Cup races throughout the season. Usually, by the time an athlete has reached this level, they will have spent about three years working their way from the Development Team to where they are now. Fourth, last but not least, we have the Senior National Team. This group of athletes are those who compete in the World Cup races all over the world and who are also candidates for our Olympic Team. It takes eight-ten years of experience to get to this level.
Can you go to school for luge? Are there scholarships, like with other sports?
Luge is such a small sport that not many colleges or schools know of it. Therefore, there are no academies or scholarships like there would be for basketball or swimming.
What are your future plans for sliding? Is there a certain team or place you plan to train with/at? Do you have a timeline in mind?
My ultimate goal is the represent the United States in the 2018 Olympic Games. I plan to eventually make my way up to the Senior National Team and race all over the world.
For readers interested in sliding: How can they learn more/get involved?
A great way to get involved is through the Adirondack Luge Club. With obtaining a membership through the Adirondack Luge Club, you will gain access to equipment and sliding participation during the designated club sliding sessions. To learn more, visit www.adirondacklugeclub.com!
I want to help you get to the Olympics! How can I help?
All athletes are mainly self-funded. We depend on friends, family and the community due to the lack of government subsidies. The most effective way to help would be through your contributions. Any form would be greatly appreciated. If you're interested, you can visit my website for more information on how to do so!
Anyway, to help Hannah get the word out about her unique sport and her fundraising needs, I invited her to hang out with us today. I just know you're going to love her, my lovely readers.
Well, I suppose I'll start out with saying that my name is Hannah Miller. I'm sixteen years old and have been homeschooled since first grade. Besides luge, I like to spend my time reading and staying fit while spending time with my family.
As you'll read on through this, you'll learn that I've dedicated the last five years of my life to something that I love and the only way I've been able to do so is through the love and support of my family and friends.
What is luge, exactly?
Luge is an odd yet unique sport. Technically, the noun form is "sliding." We slide down an iced-over track on a small sled that's fitted to our bodies at vast speeds of 65-80 mph, racing to the thousandth of a second. Luge is actually known as the fastest sport on ice.
Because we race to the thousandth of a second, all of our equipment is based off of aerodynamics. We wear skin-tight spandex suits and special shoes made to point our feet. The edges of our sleds are smooth and rounded. The whole point is to go as fast as possible.
Have you always been interested in luge?
Actually, before I tried out, I had no clue as to what luge was. My parents saw the luge recruitment program in the local newspaper and thought it'd be a fun thing for me to try out. Little did they know that four years later, I'd end up competing around the world!
How'd you get started in luge - and how old were you?
I was only twelve years old when I got started. The USLA (United States Luge Association) has a recruitment program called a "slider search" where they travel all over the country looking for raw talent. In August of 2009, they held one of these two-three hour sessions in the next town over. Seeing it in the paper,
I assumed that the program was to familiarize you with the sport, not a program that was looking for their next team athletes. Needless to say, as soon as I gave it a try, I fell in love with it.
What is your favorite part of sliding?My favorite part is definitely the adrenaline rush and the sense of accomplishment after you've had a great run. Especially after having problems in a certain area, once you finally nail it and fully understand what to do, it's just such a great feeling.
Describe a typical day in the life of a slider.
A typical day in the life of a slider can be rather hectic. On a daily basis, we take runs on the luge track, which is the most important part of our training. We do some sort of physical training, whether it be weight lifting, cardio/agility, or core movements. Also, we have an indoor start facility. The most crucial part of luge is having a fast start time; because of this, the indoor start facility enables us to focus solely on improving our start times. All of this takes about six hours of the day. The rest of our time is spent on sled maintenance, meals in between activities, catching up on schoolwork, and recuperating from the day.
What places have you traveled to for training/competition?
I've traveled to various places in Germany, Austria, Latvia and Canada; not including the US.
Where was your favorite?
My favorite location would be in Igls, Austria. The scenery is utterly breathtaking. Though, my favorite track would be in Konigssee, Germany. It's one of the only tracks in the world that was built for luge. So, because of that, the curves and pressures have a very unique feeling that's unlike any other track.
Have you won any awards? Tell us about them!
I have! I've won a number of medals through small competitions, but a few of them have been from the National Championships held in Lake Placid, New York throughout the years.
I know you're homeschooled - always have been, correct? With all the traveling involved, I was wondering - are all the sliders you know homeschooled?
Yes, I've always been homeschooled, which has come to a great advantage. Most athletes either attend online schooling, are homeschooled, or continue working through their school districts. Some schools are very good about keeping in contact with students, while some schools aren't so diligent.
How has sliding changed your life?
Luge has drastically changed my life for the better. There are only two luge/bobsled/skeleton tracks in the United States, and because of that, we have to start living away from home at the Olympic Training Center at very young ages in order to train. Like I mentioned earlier, I was twelve when I got into luge. I started living away from home at such a young age that I had no choice but to gain independence and mature. I think that this situation really has come to a great advantage in every aspect of my life. Also, traveling to all of these places and experiencing the different cultures and atmospheres of different countries is far more effective than reading and learning about it through a text book.
There are, for example, baseball teams for fun, baseball teams at school or clubs, and then there's professional on-television baseball. Are there different levels like that for luge?
There are actually four teams in the system. The first team is what we call the Development Team. This is where every athlete starts. The sole purpose for this team is to help define and develop the raw talent that the young athletes have. Second, we have the Candidate Team. This group of athletes are those who have advanced themselves and who have worked hard at bettering their skills through the Development Team. Third, we have the Junior National Team. This is the team that travels all over the world competing in our Youth/Junior World Cup races throughout the season. Usually, by the time an athlete has reached this level, they will have spent about three years working their way from the Development Team to where they are now. Fourth, last but not least, we have the Senior National Team. This group of athletes are those who compete in the World Cup races all over the world and who are also candidates for our Olympic Team. It takes eight-ten years of experience to get to this level.
Can you go to school for luge? Are there scholarships, like with other sports?
Luge is such a small sport that not many colleges or schools know of it. Therefore, there are no academies or scholarships like there would be for basketball or swimming.
What are your future plans for sliding? Is there a certain team or place you plan to train with/at? Do you have a timeline in mind?
My ultimate goal is the represent the United States in the 2018 Olympic Games. I plan to eventually make my way up to the Senior National Team and race all over the world.
For readers interested in sliding: How can they learn more/get involved?
A great way to get involved is through the Adirondack Luge Club. With obtaining a membership through the Adirondack Luge Club, you will gain access to equipment and sliding participation during the designated club sliding sessions. To learn more, visit www.adirondacklugeclub.com!
I want to help you get to the Olympics! How can I help?
All athletes are mainly self-funded. We depend on friends, family and the community due to the lack of government subsidies. The most effective way to help would be through your contributions. Any form would be greatly appreciated. If you're interested, you can visit my website for more information on how to do so!
Tuesday, October 15, 2013
Blog Tour: Teen Read Week {Hybrid Chronicles Review}
What's Left of Me and Once We Were by Kat Zhang
{Books One and Two of the Hybrid Chronicles}
Amazon Page: What's Left of Me
Amazon Page: Once We Were
GoodReads Page: What's Left of Me
GoodReads Page: Once We Were
LibraryThing Page: What's Left of Me
LibraryThing: Once We Were
Author Website
Amazon Summary - What's Left of Me:
Amazon Summary - Once We Were:
My Thoughts:
These books go so well together, and my opinions on each are so similar, I decided to just write one review for both.
I showed up at the Crossroads Writers' Conference with book money in my pocket. As soon as the sales tables opened up, I made a beeline for that oh-so-familiar cover - and discovered there was another one right beside it! But more about that in a minute.
This concept is so mind-blowing, you can't help but wonder how in the world Kat ever came up with it. The idea of two souls - two people - in every body brings up so many questions. What about love and romance? How does the body decide which soul stays and which goes? Do they really go insane like Addie and Eva are told? I mean, it doesn't seem that hard to believe.
Addie and Eva are very similar girls, but I think Kat still did well at keeping them two distinct characters. Their separate dreams and desires clash, while their sisterhood and their knitted souls hold them together even when they're not getting along. The explanations and coping mechanisms for hybrids are realistic and work well with the story, too.
The world is actually just an alternate reality - still with the same television, cars, schools, museums, etc. - rather than a full-blown new dystopian realm. However, the taste of dystopia is certainly not lacking. The oppressive government, swirling character emotions, and absolutely horrid secrets that come to light all aid this book in holding its weight next to classics like The Giver or bestsellers like The Hunger Games.
I'd really, really love to rave about these books more, but I'm afraid I'll have to hold back for fear of spoilers. Basically, five stars and go buy them now!
{Books One and Two of the Hybrid Chronicles}
Amazon Page: What's Left of Me
Amazon Page: Once We Were
GoodReads Page: What's Left of Me
GoodReads Page: Once We Were
LibraryThing Page: What's Left of MeLibraryThing: Once We Were
Author Website
Amazon Summary - What's Left of Me:
What's Left of Me, the first book of the Hybrid Chronicles, is set in an alternate reality where everyone is born with two souls. But one soul is naturally dominant, and in early childhood, the other soul fades away.That didn't happen for Addie and Eva. Now fifteen, Eva clings to life inside the body she shares with Addie, although she can no longer speak or even move.Addie does everything she can to hide the presence of her sister soul. Eva's very existence is illegal. If their secret is revealed, it could mean death for both of them.
Amazon Summary - Once We Were:In this riveting sequel to What's Left of Me, Eva and Addie struggle to share their body as they clash over romance and join the fight for hybrid freedom. With a powerful voice, an intense sibling relationship, and a sweet romance against the odds, this second novel in the Hybrid Chronicles is perfect for fans of Ally Condie, Lauren Oliver, and Scott Westerfeld.Addie and Eva escaped imprisonment at a horrific psychiatric hospital. Now they should be safe, living among an underground hybrid movement. But safety is starting to feel constricting. Faced with the possibility of being in hiding forever, the girls are eager to help bring about change—now. The answer seems to lie within a splinter group willing to go to extremes for hybrid freedom, but as Addie and Eva fall ever deeper into their plans, what they thought was the solution to their problems just might be the thing that destroys everything—including their bond to each other.
My Thoughts:
These books go so well together, and my opinions on each are so similar, I decided to just write one review for both.
I showed up at the Crossroads Writers' Conference with book money in my pocket. As soon as the sales tables opened up, I made a beeline for that oh-so-familiar cover - and discovered there was another one right beside it! But more about that in a minute.
This concept is so mind-blowing, you can't help but wonder how in the world Kat ever came up with it. The idea of two souls - two people - in every body brings up so many questions. What about love and romance? How does the body decide which soul stays and which goes? Do they really go insane like Addie and Eva are told? I mean, it doesn't seem that hard to believe.
Addie and Eva are very similar girls, but I think Kat still did well at keeping them two distinct characters. Their separate dreams and desires clash, while their sisterhood and their knitted souls hold them together even when they're not getting along. The explanations and coping mechanisms for hybrids are realistic and work well with the story, too.
The world is actually just an alternate reality - still with the same television, cars, schools, museums, etc. - rather than a full-blown new dystopian realm. However, the taste of dystopia is certainly not lacking. The oppressive government, swirling character emotions, and absolutely horrid secrets that come to light all aid this book in holding its weight next to classics like The Giver or bestsellers like The Hunger Games.
I'd really, really love to rave about these books more, but I'm afraid I'll have to hold back for fear of spoilers. Basically, five stars and go buy them now!
Friday, October 11, 2013
Blog Tour: Purple Moon {Giveaway + Guest Post: Teen Substance Abuse}
Good morning, my lovely readers! Today we have the lovely Tessa Emily Hall here on tour with her debut novel, Purple Moon. Take it away, Tessa!
Selena's life isn't turning out to be the fairy tale she imagined as a kid. That hope seemed to vanish long ago when her dad kicked her and her mom out of the house. This summer might finally hold the chance of a new beginning for Selena ... but having to live with her snobby cousin in Lake Lure, NC while waiting for her mom to get out of rehab wasn't how Selena was planning on spending her summer. She soon begins to wonder why she committed to give up her "bad habits" for this.
Things don't seem too bad, though. Especially when Selena gains the attention of the cute neighbor next door. But when her best friend back home in Brooklyn desperately needs her, a secret that's been hidden from Selena for years is revealed, and when she becomes a target for one of her cousin's nasty pranks, she finds herself having to face the scars from her past and the memories that come along with them. Will she follow her mom's example in running away, or trust that God still has a fairy tale life written just for her?
In Purple Moon, the protagonist—Selena—has a habit of both smoking cigarettes, as well as drinking with her friends. And she’s only sixteen years old.
Some Christians might wonder why I didn’t write about a character who could possibly be a role model for young readers. However, that’s actually why I chose not to. I didn’t want my teen readers to read about a character who is such a good Christian, and make them feel as if they can’t measure up. I wanted to create someone who could possibly relate to them, someone who might struggle with the same things that they do.
And unfortunately, many teenagers do not have a relationship with God. In fact, several of them have a habit of smoking cigarettes and drinking with their friends, much like Selena.
One thing I’ve realized is that one small, supposedly “innocent” decision leads to several more bigger ones. One simple “yes” opens the door to an endless amount of similar choices, and the more you give in, the easier it becomes.
But why is it that someone might say “yes” in the first place, despite the fact that they know how harmful it may be?
There are several reasons why a teen might give into this kind of temptation.
When Selena was eight-years-old, she and her mom were kicked out of the house by her dad. Now Selena and her mom live in Brooklyn, NY, where Selena is forced to be the caregiver for her alcoholic mother.
Life did not turn out the way that Selena had hoped. And for that reason, she fell into depression, which is probably one of the leading causes for teen substance abuse. Another might be family issues, including having a parent who struggles with substance abuse as well. As you can see, this is also the case for Selena.
Another cause for teen substance abuse is peer pressure.
In Purple Moon, Selena says that if it wasn’t for her ex-boyfriend, she would’ve never given into smoking cigarettes.
Another factor for substance abuse is anxiety and stress.
For Selena, smoking was a way to cope with her anxiety. She suffered from anxiety attacks, which I’m sure many teens can relate with. Since nicotine helps relieve stress, it makes it that much more addicting. However, there are many other ways teens can learn to handle their stress. In Purple Moon, Selena’s therapist told Selena that she should replace smoking with sketching.
Teens don’t realize that what they’re ultimately searching for is Christ. The hole is one that only He has the power to fill.
It’s the hole that might’ve been created due to a broken family.
Or the hunger a teen might feel to be loved.
Or the yearning they have to be accepted.
Or the anxiety they experience in the midst of attack.
That is why teen substance abuse is so widespread. Teens are searching for an answer. They keep coming back to their addictions, why? Because it’s just not satisfying. Or maybe it does temporarily, but not completely. These teens are in an endless search for something to satisfy, and it is our job to tell them that what they’re searching for can only be found in Christ.
If you are struggling with substance abuse, can I tell you something? There is an answer. Not only can Jesus fill the void and calm your anxiety, but He has the power to break the chains of your addictions. You can only find the freedom you are searching for in Christ. He always offers the chance to start brand new.
If you’re struggling with substance abuse, please find someone to talk to—preferably a parent, preacher, or Christian counselor. You can also email me at tessaehall (at) gmail (dot) com if you need someone to talk to.
Your addictions—as well as the causes of your addictions—don’t have to hold you back from experiencing life any longer.
~ ~ ~
How can adults help teenagers who might be suffering with substance abuse addiction? What are some other alternatives to substance abuse? Why do you think it has become so widespread amongst teens?
Fact or Fiction?
About the Book
Selena's life isn't turning out to be the fairy tale she imagined as a kid. That hope seemed to vanish long ago when her dad kicked her and her mom out of the house. This summer might finally hold the chance of a new beginning for Selena ... but having to live with her snobby cousin in Lake Lure, NC while waiting for her mom to get out of rehab wasn't how Selena was planning on spending her summer. She soon begins to wonder why she committed to give up her "bad habits" for this.Things don't seem too bad, though. Especially when Selena gains the attention of the cute neighbor next door. But when her best friend back home in Brooklyn desperately needs her, a secret that's been hidden from Selena for years is revealed, and when she becomes a target for one of her cousin's nasty pranks, she finds herself having to face the scars from her past and the memories that come along with them. Will she follow her mom's example in running away, or trust that God still has a fairy tale life written just for her?
Filling the Void: Teen Substance Abuse
In Purple Moon, the protagonist—Selena—has a habit of both smoking cigarettes, as well as drinking with her friends. And she’s only sixteen years old.
Some Christians might wonder why I didn’t write about a character who could possibly be a role model for young readers. However, that’s actually why I chose not to. I didn’t want my teen readers to read about a character who is such a good Christian, and make them feel as if they can’t measure up. I wanted to create someone who could possibly relate to them, someone who might struggle with the same things that they do.
And unfortunately, many teenagers do not have a relationship with God. In fact, several of them have a habit of smoking cigarettes and drinking with their friends, much like Selena.
One thing I’ve realized is that one small, supposedly “innocent” decision leads to several more bigger ones. One simple “yes” opens the door to an endless amount of similar choices, and the more you give in, the easier it becomes.
But why is it that someone might say “yes” in the first place, despite the fact that they know how harmful it may be?
There are several reasons why a teen might give into this kind of temptation.
When Selena was eight-years-old, she and her mom were kicked out of the house by her dad. Now Selena and her mom live in Brooklyn, NY, where Selena is forced to be the caregiver for her alcoholic mother.
Life did not turn out the way that Selena had hoped. And for that reason, she fell into depression, which is probably one of the leading causes for teen substance abuse. Another might be family issues, including having a parent who struggles with substance abuse as well. As you can see, this is also the case for Selena.
Another cause for teen substance abuse is peer pressure.
In Purple Moon, Selena says that if it wasn’t for her ex-boyfriend, she would’ve never given into smoking cigarettes.
Another factor for substance abuse is anxiety and stress.
For Selena, smoking was a way to cope with her anxiety. She suffered from anxiety attacks, which I’m sure many teens can relate with. Since nicotine helps relieve stress, it makes it that much more addicting. However, there are many other ways teens can learn to handle their stress. In Purple Moon, Selena’s therapist told Selena that she should replace smoking with sketching.
Teens don’t realize that what they’re ultimately searching for is Christ. The hole is one that only He has the power to fill.
It’s the hole that might’ve been created due to a broken family.
Or the hunger a teen might feel to be loved.
Or the yearning they have to be accepted.
Or the anxiety they experience in the midst of attack.
That is why teen substance abuse is so widespread. Teens are searching for an answer. They keep coming back to their addictions, why? Because it’s just not satisfying. Or maybe it does temporarily, but not completely. These teens are in an endless search for something to satisfy, and it is our job to tell them that what they’re searching for can only be found in Christ.
If you are struggling with substance abuse, can I tell you something? There is an answer. Not only can Jesus fill the void and calm your anxiety, but He has the power to break the chains of your addictions. You can only find the freedom you are searching for in Christ. He always offers the chance to start brand new.
If you’re struggling with substance abuse, please find someone to talk to—preferably a parent, preacher, or Christian counselor. You can also email me at tessaehall (at) gmail (dot) com if you need someone to talk to.
Your addictions—as well as the causes of your addictions—don’t have to hold you back from experiencing life any longer.
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How can adults help teenagers who might be suffering with substance abuse addiction? What are some other alternatives to substance abuse? Why do you think it has become so widespread amongst teens?
Fact or Fiction?
Guess this fact or fiction, and be sure to stop by the next blog tour stop to see if you guessed correctly! (You’ll also receive one extra entry for the Purple Moon Prize Pack if you send Tessa your guess.)
About the Author
Tessa Emily Hall is a 19-year-old author of Purple Moon, her YA Christian fiction novel to be published September 2013 by Lighthouse Publishing of the Carolinas. She is also the editor over the faith department for Temperance Magazine, a column writer for Whole Magazine, a contributing writer for More To Be, as well as the PR for God of Moses Entertainment. Other than writing, Tessa enjoys acting, music, Starbucks, and her Teacup Shih Tzu—who is named Brewer after a character in her book, as well as her love for coffee.
Website: www.tessaemilyhall.com
Twitter: www.twitter.com/tessaemily
Facebook: www.facebook.com/tessa.h16
Giveaway!
Don't miss the other stops on the tour:
Drop by the blog tour’s next stop to increase your chances of winning the Purple Moon Prize Pack!
Wednesday, September 18: Purple Moon Blog Tour Launch: The Story Behind the Story: Christ is Write
Thursday, September 19: 5 Facts about Purple Moon: Kim Vandel
Friday, September 20: Character Sketches + Character Cast Contest: Who YA Reading?
Monday, September 23: Behind the Scenes: Why I Chose Lake Lure: Words to Dreams
Tuesday, September 24: Release Day! Selena’s Diary Entry + Creative Photo Contest: Writing for Young Adults
Wednesday, September 25: Austin’s Diary Entry: Amy’s Book Blog
Thursday, September 26: Q & A: Notebook Sisters
Friday, September 27: Purple Moon Playlist: Ashley Carr
Monday, September 30: Purple Moon Excerpt: Wooden Swings: Heather Brice
Tuesday, October 1: Dealing With Anxiety—The Spiritual IV: The Destiny of One
Wednesday, October 2: Q & A: Saved by Grace
Thursday, October 3: Behind the Scenes: Name Meanings: Labor Not In Vain
Friday, October 4: Is It Okay To Be An Introvert?: Alex Inks It
Monday, October 7: Story Behind the Cover Art: Candy Apple Books
Tuesday, October 8: Purple Moon Excerpt: Cherishing the Sunrise: Author Casey Bond
Wednesday, October 9: Q & A: Writing While the Rice Boils
Thursday, October 10: Behind the Scenes: Christian Human Videos: Writing in Wonderland
Friday, October 11: Teenage Substance Abuse: Emily Rachelle Writes < You are here!
Monday, October 14: Behind the Scenes: Lake Lure Academy of the Arts: Worthy 2 Read
Tuesday, October 15: My Middle & High School Experience: Hello Highlights
Wednesday, October 16: Purple Moon Excerpt: Meatless Turkey Sandwich: Diane Estrella
Thursday, October 17: Body Image Laurel’s Leaves
Friday, October 18: Behind the Scenes: Brewer’s Coffee: A Splash of Ink
Monday, October 21: Purple Moon Excerpt: Farkle at the Park: A Slightly Nerdy Bookworm
Tuesday, October 22: Teenage Dating: Tell The World
Wednesday, October 23: Q & A: The YA Book Stack
Thursday, October 24: How Much of My Personal Life Did I Put Into “Purple Moon”?: Read For Your Future
Friday, October 25: Fairy Tales & Happy Endings + Contest Winners!: Inspiring Daring
Tuesday, July 9, 2013
Young Adult Writers Alumni
Visit the blog! http://yawritersalumni.blogspot.com/
Check us out on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/groups/383680995076950/
Visit Go Teen Writers! http://goteenwriters.blogspot.com/
See GTW on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/groups/goteenwriters/
Hello, my lovely readers! I am so excited to share a new project that I'm undertaking with you. Many of you know I'm part of a teen writers' group called Go Teen Writers. Recently, I met a high school graduate named Kira in that group. We got to talking about how eventually all the teens in GTW will no longer be teens, and will be crowding out all the younger people coming to us. So we decided to start a group for those in GTW ready to move on into adulthood! Since this was my brainchild, I am an honorary member and very honored to also be an administrator.
What are we?
Young Adult Writers - Alumni is largely composed of members of Go Teen Writers who have graduated High-school and have moved into legal "adulthood". Note: YAWA is not officially affiliated with or approved by GTW.
Who are we?
The YAWA Facebook group is open to anyone who has graduated high school and who loves to write! We are writers! And we write because that is who we are!
Where are we?
You can find the YAWA members on either the blog or the Facebook group (see above links).
What do we do?
YAWA is a blog/group for other writers of young adult literature or for young adult writers. We provide insights into the minds of published YA authors, writing tips from those who have been writing for most of their lives, guest posts, fun, contests, writing prompts, and friendship!
Who are our administrators?
Our current admins are Kira Hellweg, Emily Rachelle, Brian McBride, Carilyn Anne, and Sam Graber!
About our administrators:
Kira Hellweg is a recent graduate with a passion for music, Jesus Christ, and (oh, yeah) writing. She is the unpublished author of The Legend of Harthore, which is currently in the editorial stage. Her blog, Legend or Legacy, is currently focused on the above's imminent trilogy, but is sure to be invaded by her other WIPs and general writing tidbits.
Sam Graber is a homeschool graduate and avid reader and writer. He is a college student, and enjoys both playing and arranging music. Sam recently begun a novel titled Korina of Two Worlds, which he hopes to make his first published novel. You can find his author page on Facebook.
Brian McBride is a published author of a YA fantasy novel, Paradox, and is a frequent blogger at Shattering the Darkness. He is a musician, an artist, and loves photography.
And Carilyn Anne is coming soon!
Check us out on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/groups/383680995076950/
Visit Go Teen Writers! http://goteenwriters.blogspot.com/
See GTW on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/groups/goteenwriters/
Hello, my lovely readers! I am so excited to share a new project that I'm undertaking with you. Many of you know I'm part of a teen writers' group called Go Teen Writers. Recently, I met a high school graduate named Kira in that group. We got to talking about how eventually all the teens in GTW will no longer be teens, and will be crowding out all the younger people coming to us. So we decided to start a group for those in GTW ready to move on into adulthood! Since this was my brainchild, I am an honorary member and very honored to also be an administrator.
What are we?
Young Adult Writers - Alumni is largely composed of members of Go Teen Writers who have graduated High-school and have moved into legal "adulthood". Note: YAWA is not officially affiliated with or approved by GTW.
Who are we?
The YAWA Facebook group is open to anyone who has graduated high school and who loves to write! We are writers! And we write because that is who we are!
Where are we?
You can find the YAWA members on either the blog or the Facebook group (see above links).
What do we do?
YAWA is a blog/group for other writers of young adult literature or for young adult writers. We provide insights into the minds of published YA authors, writing tips from those who have been writing for most of their lives, guest posts, fun, contests, writing prompts, and friendship!
Who are our administrators?
Our current admins are Kira Hellweg, Emily Rachelle, Brian McBride, Carilyn Anne, and Sam Graber!
About our administrators:
Kira Hellweg is a recent graduate with a passion for music, Jesus Christ, and (oh, yeah) writing. She is the unpublished author of The Legend of Harthore, which is currently in the editorial stage. Her blog, Legend or Legacy, is currently focused on the above's imminent trilogy, but is sure to be invaded by her other WIPs and general writing tidbits.
Sam Graber is a homeschool graduate and avid reader and writer. He is a college student, and enjoys both playing and arranging music. Sam recently begun a novel titled Korina of Two Worlds, which he hopes to make his first published novel. You can find his author page on Facebook.
Brian McBride is a published author of a YA fantasy novel, Paradox, and is a frequent blogger at Shattering the Darkness. He is a musician, an artist, and loves photography.
And Carilyn Anne is coming soon!
Thursday, June 13, 2013
The Wilds Summer Camp and My Big, Bold, Scary Future
As I mentioned last week, I just spent June 3-8 off in a beautiful mountain retreat in North Carolina called the Wilds Christian camp. (P.S. - The fanfiction also mentioned in that post has a new chapter up!)
Well, my camera broke before we arrived, I got sick in the middle of the night, I almost broke my nose twice, and I went to breakfast and chapel in my pajamas one morning.
But overall it was totally, completely awesome.
I went to the lake. I went on a hike to some gorgeous (and frigid) waterfalls. I got a few bug bites and a sunburn-tan-hybrid... thing. The lovely ladies at the craft shop saw me almost every day, unlike last year when I spent that time in the snack shop. (It is sooo not worth the stairs just for snacks during free time.)
Lots of other people went putt-putting, giant swing-ing, rock climbing... and my whole cabin did go tubing one day. I did the water and the land ziplines, or trolleys as the Wilds calls them. My umbrella broke on the first day it rained, so I had my fair share of free outdoor showers for the second half of the week.
I did intend to do the giant swing, but couldn't find anyone to do it with - which was actually why I ended up on the Land Trolley, since Shane and AnneMarie from church (pictured below) invited me to do that with them. Naturally, the whole time we're walking from the line to the place you actually zipline, AnneMarie's talking about how it's not that scary and blah blah blah. Then, it being my first time, I had a mini freakout before stepping off the platform into thin air, with nothing but trees and a creek under my swinging legs.
Oh, and the best preacher I have seriously ever heard in my life spoke to us twice a day for a whole awesome week. This is probably one of the most personal things I've ever got up and said in public, but here's the testimony I shared during the camp spotlight at my church on Sunday night:
“...I’m seventeen and a half years old and looking at serious future stuff like college. This is and always was what God made me for. My plans, my comforts, the people I want in my life may not figure in - but that doesn’t matter. Wherever God wants me, future adult teaching me, it’s not America... I will not forget or forsake this. It is the real and powerful working of a real and mighty God... [Who is] not letting go of the plan [He] had all along for me.”
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| Green Team Rally |
But overall it was totally, completely awesome.
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| Rebekah and I at the Cool Beans coffee shop |
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| Alex (girl from my cabin) and I with our team for Spin It to Win It |
Lots of other people went putt-putting, giant swing-ing, rock climbing... and my whole cabin did go tubing one day. I did the water and the land ziplines, or trolleys as the Wilds calls them. My umbrella broke on the first day it rained, so I had my fair share of free outdoor showers for the second half of the week.
I did intend to do the giant swing, but couldn't find anyone to do it with - which was actually why I ended up on the Land Trolley, since Shane and AnneMarie from church (pictured below) invited me to do that with them. Naturally, the whole time we're walking from the line to the place you actually zipline, AnneMarie's talking about how it's not that scary and blah blah blah. Then, it being my first time, I had a mini freakout before stepping off the platform into thin air, with nothing but trees and a creek under my swinging legs.
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| Shane and AnneMarie and I hanging out by the giant swing |
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| My totally awesome cabin! From left: Taylor, Shelby, Hallie, the amazing counselor Meg, Bekah, Savannah, Chass, and Hannah; in front: Alex and me! |
My camp week was really broken into two parts. The first two days, I dealt with jealousy issues.
Hindsight is 20/20, and I know now I’ve always had problems with being jealous towards my friends - not because of material possessions, but because of other relationships they had with people that weren’t me.
This past year, I’d finally started to realize this problem. On the bus to camp, Pastor Danny asked some of us to come up to the front and share how we were hoping God would work in our lives. So that’s what I talked about - jealousy.
The very first message Dr. Ferrel preached was about attitude. To sum that whole evening up in a few words, “Your attitude is your choice.” Before I could let go of my resentments, I had to admit that the situations weren’t entirely my friends’ fault - how I handled and reacted to situations was on me.
The second Christian Life Seminar was about anger, specifically four types of anger in Ephesians 4:31. In order to deal with my jealousy problem, I had to admit it was really an anger problem - specifically a problem with bitterness, which is defined as a smouldering resentment or grudge.
Halfway through the week, I realized that God and I really had worked entirely through my
jealousy issue. I was actually a little worried I might be bored for the rest of the week,
thinking that I’d have nothing left to learn during the chapel services. Clearly, that was
just me being stupid.
The last Christian Life Seminar was about missions, persecuted Christianity, and just a general worldview with specific statistics on Christianity outside of America and the distorted, selfish mindset of many American Christians. Then, the Friday night message was about the man or woman God uses.
Growing up, during revival weeks at church or summer camps like the Wilds, I’ve previously surrendered to missions work. Sometimes this was a vague idea that I was meant to do something missionary oriented. Other times I surrendered to a more specific calling involving children, teaching, sometimes orphanage work. But we’re all familiar with the what comes after the spiritual high of camps and revivals, and as things settled back into normal, time passed, and I started to push aside the decision I’d made. It was too soon for me to know what God’s plan was. I was younger when I said that - now I don’t want that future anymore. It was just an emotional reaction.
In reality, these were all excuses. I knew God wanted me to be a teacher and I was already planning on studying Elementary Education at a Christian college. But after that... well, I was still holding tight to the ‘after college’ with both hands. So on Friday night I surrendered once again to what I admitted always was and will be God’s calling: He made me to be a missionary teacher. As in full time service with children, outside of country, quite possibly speaking Spanish or eating mealworms.
To close, I’d like to read part of what I wrote in my journal during the Friday night fireside service.
“...I’m seventeen and a half years old and looking at serious future stuff like college. This is and always was what God made me for. My plans, my comforts, the people I want in my life may not figure in - but that doesn’t matter. Wherever God wants me, future adult teaching me, it’s not America... I will not forget or forsake this. It is the real and powerful working of a real and mighty God... [Who is] not letting go of the plan [He] had all along for me.”
Tuesday, April 2, 2013
Book Review: Christy Miller Volume One
Christy Miller {Volume One} by Robin Jones Gunn
Whether you're meeting her for the first time or have known her for years, Christy is a Forever Friend.
Amazon Page
GoodReads Page
LibraryThing Page
Author Website
Amazon Summary:
My Thoughts:
To be up front with you, my lovely readers, this is not my typical book review. I actually first read this series as a thirteen-year-old and completely fell in love with the older-and-cooler-than-me Christy Miller, who was so totally lucky to have rich Aunt Marti spoiling her and the amazing Christian friends Todd and Katie, not to mention the attention of two great guys at once! Then, a few years later, I re-read the series - and discovered that, while I still loved the books and the characters, I had definitely grown (both in life and as a reader) since first reading the books. Now, as I read them again at seventeen, it's amazing how growing up with Christy and reading the books several times has affected my life.
The first time I read the books, I loved everything - characters, setting, emotions, writing, everything! Ten stars out of five! This was the best author ever and I just had to get the Sierra Jensen and College Years books that came next! (Now there's also the Katie Weldon books, which personally I love the most.)
The second time, I still loved it. I noticed a few things about the writing style that didn't quite sit right with me, although they were grammatically correct. I had grown as a reader, so I knew my preferences in how books were formatted. I also noticed a few things I hadn't before that dated the books - the lack of cell phones and email, the abundance of scrunchies and sweatshirts and perms, the slang and speaking style used. Nothing huge.
Now, the third time, I've noticed how Christy can be a little too whiny and/or insecure at times. As a thirteen year old, I thought fifteen-year-old Christy was uber-mature and totally cool. At fifteen myself, I related to her so well. Now at seventeen, I can look at some things that scare/upset Christy and smile remembering when it happened to me; other times I can see just how immature I (and all preteens/teens) can be, thinking in the moment that something's a big deal and realizing later that I blew it out of proportion and adults really do know what they're talking about. It really makes me look at the big picture.
My favorite part about the re-readings is knowing how things end up, how everything works out, and sort of laughing at, sympathizing with, or being super happy with Christy. Sometimes I even get frustrated, because Christy gets so worked up over things I know don't end up mattering at all! It makes me feel a lot closer to God, because I've learned a bit of how He feels watching us live in the moment and worry about things when He knows exactly what's ahead for us and what He wants us to do in every situation.
I still think some of the writing formatting and 80's remnants from the first publication of these books (1988-on) could use a little facelift. Other than that, though, these books are unlike any others and probably the number one books I would recommend for girls ages 12-18. I have absolutely loved growing up with Christy and her friends, and it's an experience I won't want my future daughters to miss out on, either.
I give this book 4.5 stars and am thoroughly enjoying re-reading the rest of the series as well. :)
While I already owned this book, I received a free copy from Blogging for Books in exchange for this review. All thoughts expressed are entirely my own.
Whether you're meeting her for the first time or have known her for years, Christy is a Forever Friend.
Amazon Page
GoodReads Page
LibraryThing Page
Author Website
Amazon Summary:
Bestselling author Robin Jones Gunn packs each one with enough action, romance, and drama to keep you reading and wanting more. It all starts the summer Christy vacations on a California beach and meets two friends who change her life forever. But after moving across the country with her family, Christy must begin her sophomore year of high school uncertain where she’ll fit in. A red-headed new best friend, a try at cheerleading, a job at a pet store, and expectations for the prom fill Christy’s high school years with a string of laughter-and-tears moments. Fireball Katie keeps everyone guessing what she’ll do next, and surfer Todd keeps showing up while popular Rick has determined to get her full attention! As these memorable years unfold, Christy and her God-loving friends find out what it means to be a “peculiar treasure.” Follow Christy Miller as she stays true to her identity in Christ, drawing closer to God for help in realizing her dreams and dealing with her disappointments.
My Thoughts:
To be up front with you, my lovely readers, this is not my typical book review. I actually first read this series as a thirteen-year-old and completely fell in love with the older-and-cooler-than-me Christy Miller, who was so totally lucky to have rich Aunt Marti spoiling her and the amazing Christian friends Todd and Katie, not to mention the attention of two great guys at once! Then, a few years later, I re-read the series - and discovered that, while I still loved the books and the characters, I had definitely grown (both in life and as a reader) since first reading the books. Now, as I read them again at seventeen, it's amazing how growing up with Christy and reading the books several times has affected my life.
The first time I read the books, I loved everything - characters, setting, emotions, writing, everything! Ten stars out of five! This was the best author ever and I just had to get the Sierra Jensen and College Years books that came next! (Now there's also the Katie Weldon books, which personally I love the most.)
The second time, I still loved it. I noticed a few things about the writing style that didn't quite sit right with me, although they were grammatically correct. I had grown as a reader, so I knew my preferences in how books were formatted. I also noticed a few things I hadn't before that dated the books - the lack of cell phones and email, the abundance of scrunchies and sweatshirts and perms, the slang and speaking style used. Nothing huge.
Now, the third time, I've noticed how Christy can be a little too whiny and/or insecure at times. As a thirteen year old, I thought fifteen-year-old Christy was uber-mature and totally cool. At fifteen myself, I related to her so well. Now at seventeen, I can look at some things that scare/upset Christy and smile remembering when it happened to me; other times I can see just how immature I (and all preteens/teens) can be, thinking in the moment that something's a big deal and realizing later that I blew it out of proportion and adults really do know what they're talking about. It really makes me look at the big picture.
My favorite part about the re-readings is knowing how things end up, how everything works out, and sort of laughing at, sympathizing with, or being super happy with Christy. Sometimes I even get frustrated, because Christy gets so worked up over things I know don't end up mattering at all! It makes me feel a lot closer to God, because I've learned a bit of how He feels watching us live in the moment and worry about things when He knows exactly what's ahead for us and what He wants us to do in every situation.
I still think some of the writing formatting and 80's remnants from the first publication of these books (1988-on) could use a little facelift. Other than that, though, these books are unlike any others and probably the number one books I would recommend for girls ages 12-18. I have absolutely loved growing up with Christy and her friends, and it's an experience I won't want my future daughters to miss out on, either.
I give this book 4.5 stars and am thoroughly enjoying re-reading the rest of the series as well. :)
While I already owned this book, I received a free copy from Blogging for Books in exchange for this review. All thoughts expressed are entirely my own.
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
Mistakes I Made Early In My Writing Career {dual guest post + GIVEAWAY!}
Guess what? We have guests! Please join me in welcoming Stephanie Morrill and Jill Williamson of the Go Teen Writers blog!
UPDATE: Scroll down to the Rafflecopter at the end of this post for a chance to win an ecopy of the new Go Teen Writers book!
The publishing business is so quirky, it can feel impossible to learn all the rules and etiquette. With our book Go Teen Writers: How to Turn Your First Draft Into a Published Book, we wanted to pass along what we’ve learned in our years of pursuing writing. Here are five mistakes each of us made early in our career:
I narrowed my selections to three craft related mistakes and two industry/professional mistakes.
1. Story Structure. I’m a pantser by nature (someone who writes by the seat of my pants rather than outlining), and as a novice writer, I didn’t bother to understand story structure. Because I had absorbed a great deal of it from movies and reading, I assumed I knew what I needed to write a good story. I see now how my early stories would have been strengthened had I known a bit more about beginnings, ends, and especially middles.
2. Passive writing. My early manuscripts are riddled with phrases like, “Paige was walking,” or “Matt was Carter’s best friend.” I didn’t even know I wrote passively until an agent told me. Fortunately she said if I fixed my abundance of passive sentences, she would take another look at it. After I fixed my sentences to “Paige walked” and “Matt, Carter’s best friend…” she asked to represent me.
3. Dialogue Tags and Action Beats. In second grade I wrote a story with tons of dialogue. My teacher told me it was difficult to tell who was talking, and that I should use things like, “Sam said,” to show who was talking. Well, I really took that to heart. Even 10 years later, I used a dialogue tag with just about every sentence. When I learned how to use action beats, my scenes flowed so much better. Action beats are things like: Sam planted his hands on his hips. “Why would you say such a thing?”
4. I thought if I ignored marketing, it would go away. Or I guess that’s why I thought it was okay if I didn’t learn how to market my books. I hoped/prayed Me, Just Different (which is currently available for free on your ereader!) would magically break out on its own, and I could ignore everything that everybody said about how important it was to put together a marketing plan. I’m still not brilliant with marketing by any stretch, but I’ve certainly learned a lot about reaching my readers and how to wisely investment my time.
5. I didn’t understand why a one-sentence pitch mattered. My books aren’t high-concept books, so I’ve always had trouble summarizing them in a sentence. After I had sold my first series, I wiped my brow and put my “elevator pitch” days behind me. I had sold! That meant no more pitching! Until you’re on a TV show and they say, “Tell us what your book is about.” Or when you’re at a book signing and a stranger wanders by your table and ask, “What happens in your book?” As scary and uncomfortable as pitch sentences feel to me, I’ve come to terms with the fact that a good one is my most powerful marketing too.
Yeah, I could go on and on! But I gave five mistakes as well.
1. I didn’t respect my dream. I knew nothing about how to write good fiction. And I spent more time daydreaming about the success I might have someday than I spent writing and learning. I wrote half a book and went to a conference thinking I could sell it for a million dollars. (I now have nine books in print and still haven’t come anywhere near making a million dollars. If I add together the income from five years of writing, I haven’t even made a hundred thousand yet!)
2. I sent out my book before it was ready. Once I did finish my first book, I submitted it to agents and editors before I’d found the right people to read and edit it for me. It wasn’t ready, so rejection was always swift.
3. I signed with the wrong agent. I was so eager to be published, that when one of my random query letters came back with a positive response, I signed on without much thought or investigation. And I was lucky. My first agent was a good guy. But we weren’t the best fit and things didn’t work out. I encourage you all to meet your potential agent first at a writers conference. I realize that’s not always possible, so make a list of what’s important to you in an agent and be patient until you find the right one. Parting ways with an agent is never fun.
4. I tried too hard to put a theme in my books. I knew what I wanted to say and I found a way to say it. Readers who agree with me love that about my books. But the readers who don’t think like I do feel judged by certain aspects of my books. I never meant for that to happen. I was simply trying to write what I wanted to say. But a good writer shows all sides of every theme fairly and lets the reader choose what to believe. This has been a hard lesson for me that I continue to strive to do better with.
5. I judged fellow writers. There was a time before I was published when I read books and began to think, “My book is better than this one. What’s the deal here?” It upset me that these people were published and I was not when I felt that my book was better. So I pointed out what writers were doing wrong in book reviews or blog posts. I wanted people to know that these books were breaking the rules!
If you ever feel this way, resist. I know it’s tough. And I know that there are lots of wildly successful authors who break the rules. But that didn’t give me the right to judge. I should have held my tongue—or fingers from typing. Because there were times when I had to sit beside some of those authors, feeling very sheepish for the cruel things I once said online.
And there were also times when some unpublished authors felt the need to rip apart my book and point out all the ways that it was terrible. And that hurts. Don’t bad-mouth someone’s book when you don’t have any understanding of what it took to write and get that book published. We’re all on the same team here. Let’s support each other. And it’s always best to follow this rule: If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.
Stephanie Morrill and Jill Williamson have written a combined two dozen speculative and contemporary novels for teens. They also blog obsessively at www.goteenwriters.com. When not writing or blogging, they can be found at the teen table at writer's conferences or wherever chocolate is being given away. Come hang out with Stephanie at www.stephaniemorrill.com and Jill at www.jillwilliamson.com.
And the giveaway! Open to all ages, international, ends Tuesday, April 2 at midnight. :)
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Stephanie’s Big Mistakes
I narrowed my selections to three craft related mistakes and two industry/professional mistakes.
1. Story Structure. I’m a pantser by nature (someone who writes by the seat of my pants rather than outlining), and as a novice writer, I didn’t bother to understand story structure. Because I had absorbed a great deal of it from movies and reading, I assumed I knew what I needed to write a good story. I see now how my early stories would have been strengthened had I known a bit more about beginnings, ends, and especially middles.
2. Passive writing. My early manuscripts are riddled with phrases like, “Paige was walking,” or “Matt was Carter’s best friend.” I didn’t even know I wrote passively until an agent told me. Fortunately she said if I fixed my abundance of passive sentences, she would take another look at it. After I fixed my sentences to “Paige walked” and “Matt, Carter’s best friend…” she asked to represent me.
3. Dialogue Tags and Action Beats. In second grade I wrote a story with tons of dialogue. My teacher told me it was difficult to tell who was talking, and that I should use things like, “Sam said,” to show who was talking. Well, I really took that to heart. Even 10 years later, I used a dialogue tag with just about every sentence. When I learned how to use action beats, my scenes flowed so much better. Action beats are things like: Sam planted his hands on his hips. “Why would you say such a thing?”
4. I thought if I ignored marketing, it would go away. Or I guess that’s why I thought it was okay if I didn’t learn how to market my books. I hoped/prayed Me, Just Different (which is currently available for free on your ereader!) would magically break out on its own, and I could ignore everything that everybody said about how important it was to put together a marketing plan. I’m still not brilliant with marketing by any stretch, but I’ve certainly learned a lot about reaching my readers and how to wisely investment my time.
5. I didn’t understand why a one-sentence pitch mattered. My books aren’t high-concept books, so I’ve always had trouble summarizing them in a sentence. After I had sold my first series, I wiped my brow and put my “elevator pitch” days behind me. I had sold! That meant no more pitching! Until you’re on a TV show and they say, “Tell us what your book is about.” Or when you’re at a book signing and a stranger wanders by your table and ask, “What happens in your book?” As scary and uncomfortable as pitch sentences feel to me, I’ve come to terms with the fact that a good one is my most powerful marketing too.
Jill’s Big Mistakes
Yeah, I could go on and on! But I gave five mistakes as well.
1. I didn’t respect my dream. I knew nothing about how to write good fiction. And I spent more time daydreaming about the success I might have someday than I spent writing and learning. I wrote half a book and went to a conference thinking I could sell it for a million dollars. (I now have nine books in print and still haven’t come anywhere near making a million dollars. If I add together the income from five years of writing, I haven’t even made a hundred thousand yet!)
2. I sent out my book before it was ready. Once I did finish my first book, I submitted it to agents and editors before I’d found the right people to read and edit it for me. It wasn’t ready, so rejection was always swift.
3. I signed with the wrong agent. I was so eager to be published, that when one of my random query letters came back with a positive response, I signed on without much thought or investigation. And I was lucky. My first agent was a good guy. But we weren’t the best fit and things didn’t work out. I encourage you all to meet your potential agent first at a writers conference. I realize that’s not always possible, so make a list of what’s important to you in an agent and be patient until you find the right one. Parting ways with an agent is never fun.
4. I tried too hard to put a theme in my books. I knew what I wanted to say and I found a way to say it. Readers who agree with me love that about my books. But the readers who don’t think like I do feel judged by certain aspects of my books. I never meant for that to happen. I was simply trying to write what I wanted to say. But a good writer shows all sides of every theme fairly and lets the reader choose what to believe. This has been a hard lesson for me that I continue to strive to do better with.
5. I judged fellow writers. There was a time before I was published when I read books and began to think, “My book is better than this one. What’s the deal here?” It upset me that these people were published and I was not when I felt that my book was better. So I pointed out what writers were doing wrong in book reviews or blog posts. I wanted people to know that these books were breaking the rules!
If you ever feel this way, resist. I know it’s tough. And I know that there are lots of wildly successful authors who break the rules. But that didn’t give me the right to judge. I should have held my tongue—or fingers from typing. Because there were times when I had to sit beside some of those authors, feeling very sheepish for the cruel things I once said online.
And there were also times when some unpublished authors felt the need to rip apart my book and point out all the ways that it was terrible. And that hurts. Don’t bad-mouth someone’s book when you don’t have any understanding of what it took to write and get that book published. We’re all on the same team here. Let’s support each other. And it’s always best to follow this rule: If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.
Stephanie Morrill and Jill Williamson have written a combined two dozen speculative and contemporary novels for teens. They also blog obsessively at www.goteenwriters.com. When not writing or blogging, they can be found at the teen table at writer's conferences or wherever chocolate is being given away. Come hang out with Stephanie at www.stephaniemorrill.com and Jill at www.jillwilliamson.com.
And the giveaway! Open to all ages, international, ends Tuesday, April 2 at midnight. :)
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